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1. The number of previous girlfriends
Indeed there’s man who exaggerate the number of his previous girlfriends, he wishes that you will impress on him and think if he is an adorable man. But if a man wants to build a serious relationship, he will cut the actual number of his ex-girlfriends, so you will regard him as a good and faithful man.
How to face it:
Just say ‘okay’, but of course you still need to be aware. If you find evidence that his ex-girlfriends more than the number he has mentioned, you don’t need to confront him, keep that information only for you. What matters now is how far his seriousness to build a relationship with you. If he doesn’t have any affair with another woman when he makes relationship with you, then you don’t need to worry about his loyalty, every person has a past.

2. He secretly compares you with his ex-girlfriend
Secretly man often compares woman with his ex-girlfriends, start from the appearance, the ability to get along with his friends, and even the ability on bed.
How to face it:
You don’t need to feel upset or try hard to change yourself. Just be yourself and feel comfortable with everything you already have, a woman who has strong personality will look sexier in man’s eyes. You may feel upset if he starts to throw comments or criticisms which comparing you with his ex-girlfriends.

3. He’s still in touch via online with his ex
Technological sophistication gives possibility for people to relate each other. The presence of social networks make someone could find some old friends, including ex-girlfriend. Sometimes man gets in touch with his old love as an effort to get ‘assurance’ that there will be someone who wants to accept him if the relationship with his girlfriend doesn’t run well.
How to face it:
You don’t need to panic or forbid him to join with the social networks. Don’t threaten him to close his facebook account if he has some female friends there. Some men use social networks to widen his connections; even they use it as marketing media. As long as he doesn’t hide his wall contents, or hiding someone from you, you don’t need to worry if he joins with the social networks.

4. He’s afraid if he can’t be faithful to you.
Everything will change, including you and him, sometimes man worried if the changes will affect his feeling to you. And the worse, this modern lifestyle tends to consider if the disloyal behavior is something normal.
How to face it:
You don’t need to worry, not all men have thin loyalty, there are men who full of commitment and loyal to his partner. Even a study in England said that men with high intelligence tend to be more faithful and monogamous. Dr. Kanazawa as a part of the study said that the more intelligent men tend to be monogamous and always uphold the sexual exclusivity value compared with the less intelligent men. Besides that, you can’t deny if the temptations are always around us, not only he who must be alert for the temptations, you should also keep your heart and avoid the temptation to have an affair.

5. Increase the frequency of sex
Many married men expect if they could get more sex in their marriage life. But some of them don’t say it frankly because they are afraid if their wife thinks that they are a sex maniac. As a result, many married men distribute their biological needs by masturbating.
How to face it:
If during this time the initiative to have sex always comes from your husband, occasionally you need to make changes, there’s no wrong if you make the initiative first. Widen your knowledge about sex also important, because the quality of sexual life is one of keys for the stability of marriage.

6. He is flirting with his female colleague
Some men admit if they ever flirt with female colleague at working place. Usually this happens because men spend more time at work than at home with their wife.
How to face it:
Flirting at working place usually is not something serious, because it’s very difficult to hide an affair among the colleagues. Don’t worry too much, be nice to his coworkers, because they can help you to watch your husband’s behavior in the office, even a good friend will try to remind your husband if he is tempted to have affair with other woman.

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Surely you wish if a first date can run smoothly, but unfortunately not all men could behave well in the first date, such as these following things:

1. Continuously talks about his ex girlfriend
For the first date he invites you for having a dinner, but only five minutes you are sitting at the restaurant, he starts to talk about his ex girlfriend. Such as “Do you know, this restaurant was our favorite place for dinner”, or maybe he tells about how he broke up from his ex or how he felt disappointed on her etc.
If he talks about his ex over and over again, and even he mentions her name for several times, it indicates that he hasn’t finished his problem with his ex, and he approaches you just to forget his hurt because of the previous relationship.

2. Calling, sending sms, playing with his Blackberry
You wish if the first date can be a good start of better communication with him, but in the middle of conversation, he always asks for time to answer the phone, reply the sms, or even open email from his blackberry.
If he is a doctor and the message is an emergency message from the hospital, maybe you can understand him, but if the message is coming from another woman, it’s a signal that he can’t appreciate your presence beside him.

3. Ask your name for many times
If he forgets your name once or twice, it’s still reasonable, maybe it’s because you didn’t say your name clearly. But if he asks your name over and over again, or even he calls you with the name of another woman, it’s not cool at all; he’s probably dating several women at the same time.

4. Staring at another woman
If he looks at another woman just for a few seconds, it’s still normal; woman sometimes also likes to look at other man who’s passing in front of her.
But if he looks at that woman from head to toe for long time without blinking and even he does that repeatedly, apparently this man has difficulty to be faithful to one woman.

5. Staring at other man
If you catch him looking at another man deeply, this is a bad sign for love relationships. If you just want to be his friend, this may not be a problem, but if you want to be a lover, you better trust your hunches, find another man who’s interested to the opposite sex.

6. He makes you pay the bill
In this modern era, it’s normal if a woman wants to pay the bill, but if he who invites you to go out, it means that he is the one who has responsible for the dating, including paying the dinner bill. This is not just about money, but this is responsibility issues.

7. He tries to kiss you with little bit forcing
After the unpleasant dating was over, he still tries to kiss you with little bit forcing. If you really don’t want it, don’t hesitate to leave him and close the door immediately.

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It must be really tiring if after years of dating he never gives certainty about the relationship. He never mention about the engagement or marriage. You start to feel restless and wish that he could make up his mind immediately. But is it effective to give him an ultimatum or deadline?

Usually there are two benchmarks that make a woman wants to marry soon, they are ‘Biological clock and Sociological clock’. The first is a biological condition of woman’s body associated with female infertility. Woman wants to marry when her body is still productive and healthy enough to have a child, usually it’s between 27 till 35 years old. The second is a certain age that according to society is ready to get married; every culture has a different view about the limit of age.

If indeed you are tired to make adventures in love and want to get married soon, you better say it honestly to your couple. Invite him to discuss about the future of relationship, don’t hesitate to say what you wish, because it is for the goodness between you and him.

For the first step, you can ask about his future plans for the next few years, if he only mentions about his career or other personal desires without saying about his desire to have a family, it’s possible if your boyfriend is not ready to get married.

You could also ask about the reason why he is reluctant to get married. Don’t easily believe if he says that he hasn’t settled enough in financially or he is waiting for the right moment. Because the problem could be deeper than that, maybe he is not sure that you are the right woman who will accompany him for the rest of his life, he is afraid if he can’t flirt with other women anymore, or maybe he has a ‘peter pan complex syndrome’ where he always avoids responsibility and wants to be free from any liability.

The next step is to ask yourself whether you are ready to run a relationship which doesn’t go to anywhere aka it’s complicated. A relationship can work well if both of you don’t have any problem with making commitment.

So the next question is … is it effective to give him ultimatum?

Before you decide to give him an ultimatum, you should ask yourself whether you are ready to accept the worst consequences of your ultimatum. Each ultimatum has two possibilities, he will propose you as soon as possible, or he will leave you and decide to break the relationship.

If you finally decide to give him an ultimatum, you have to be firm in applying your words. Give him time to think, but don’t forget to give a time limit when he should give a decision. Don’t give him an ultimatum over and over again but in fact you are not ready to accept the consequences. He will realize that you are just bluffing and he will underestimate you.

If the time is up and he couldn’t give a straight answer, you don’t need to be afraid and hesitate to end the relationship. You should try other opportunity and find another man who’s willing to marry you. Every person has a right to get the best in life.

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Breakup is painful, especially if your boyfriend who decides to breakup from you first, this following thing is the signs if a man wants to breakup the relationship:

1. Away from you physically and emotionally

He reduces the frequency of meetings with you. Beforehand he used to meet you almost every day, but then the meeting frequency starts to reduce, it becomes once a week, once in two weeks, once in three weeks, once a month, and finally it’s hard for you to meet him.

He always has a reason to avoid you, such as having an important meeting in the office, accompanying his clients, accompanying his mother for shopping, his car gets trouble etc, even if he finally agrees to meet with you, it’s because you have persuaded him for many times. He also avoids some routine activities that he used to do with you, such as go to cinema, go to gym together, or spend weekend together.

Emotionally away from you can be done in many ways, he may be right beside you, but you feel that his heart is far away from you. No more intimate and warm stare when you make eye contact with him, his tone sounds flat as if he is tired to talk with you, he acts passive like a sculpture without emotion, and he always avoids to talk about the future of relationship, such as about commitment, engagement, weddings etc, he will say “Could we talk about something else?”

2. Changing the routine activities

Each couple has routine activities every day, such as sending sms that contains of sweet words, sweet greeting in the morning like ‘Good morning babe!’, pick you up from the office, or have lunch together.
But now the routine activities begin to disappear, he never sends sms with sweet words, he prefers to hang out with his friends than having lunch with you, he never gives sweet greeting etc. If this happens, maybe he thinks that hanging out with his friends feels more interesting than to be with you.

3. The intimacy begins to fade away

Usually he doesn’t hesitate to show his love to you, such as hugging, kissing, or caressing your hair. But now he acts cold, he doesn’t hold your hand during a walk in the park, he doesn’t hug you when watching TV together, or he doesn’t kiss you when he meets you. This attitude shows that he is losing interest on you.

4. The frequency of fighting starts to change

He used to say his opinions, both of you often have different opinions and sometimes you are arguing each other. But now he suddenly changed, he often avoids the tense conversation and doesn’t want to argue, he often says “up to you!” This does not mean that he has changed to be a sweet kitten, maybe he is looking for the best way to breakup from you, and he doesn’t want to feel guilty by hurting you through a lot of fights.

If your boyfriend is a quiet person, maybe he will give contrary reaction. He will seek your faults; he makes small problems become bigger, even he often fights with you without any reason. He wants to be a jerk in your eyes, so he has a reason to walk away from you.

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