Signs that he is possibly cheating

1. Understands if other man is having affair
One day you tell him about your friend who feels sad because of her boyfriend cheats on her. Usually he will give his empathy to someone who becomes a victim of disloyalty, however this time he gives different opinion, he doesn’t blame that man, and precisely he says that he can understand about the deception that was done by that man. He starts to give some logical reasons that give a sign if having affair is not a big problem.

2. Hiding a name
Usually you recognize all names in your man’s phone. One day you find a new name of girl inside his phone book, or without deliberate you find a woman’s name and her number in his wallet or agenda. Of course you will suspicious about this name, because if she is only an ordinary friend, he won’t hide her name and he won’t mind if you know about it. If you are not sure about this, you can ask about this name to his friends, if they also don’t know, then you should ask this name to your man. You better find the right place and time to ask about it, don’t ask emotionally, because man will not like if he is urged by someone else.

3. Hiding your existence
When he is not around you, he often denies about your existence as his couple. For example when he is gathering with his friends, he never admits that he already has a girlfriend. He always says to his friends that he is not belonging to anyone. He acts like this to attract attention from other women that he meets. Of course if he admits that he has a girlfriend, he won’t be able to get some pretty girls to make date behind you. In this case, friendship role is very important, ask them to be honest with you, if they are good friends, of course they won’t let you will be hurt by disloyal man.

4. Investing a goodness
He says that he doesn’t mind if you go with other man, “I want our relation can be win-win solution, I don’t want to curb your freedom, if you want to make date with other man, I won’t mind”. Actually this statement has a hidden intention, he doesn’t want to feel guilty if one day you see him make date with other woman. However, you are his girlfriend, not only his sex partner, so he should treat you better.

5. Mr. Details
Usually man doesn’t talk too much just like a woman, although you ask his opinion, he only gives short words and straight to the problem. However this time is different, suddenly he likes to give long answer for your simple question. This behavior can be his effort to prepare a perfect scenario to cover his action in the future. When someone wants to tell a lie, the trick that often been used is gives too much details.