Why he doesn't introduce you to his family ?

May 26th, 2009 by turisuna No comments »

After quiet long times establish a serious relationship with a man, of course you want to be introduced to his family and indicate that your relation with him is serious. But unfortunately your wish seems will never come through, he never discusses about his family, and when you try to ask him, he will give many excuses why he doesn’t bring you to his family yet. These following things are some reasons why man is not ready to bring his girlfriend to his family:
1. Too Fast
For a man, brings girlfriend to his family is not as easy as to choose lunch place for you and him. He needs more than three months or even more than a year to decide whether you are an appropriate girl to be brought to his family. It doesn’t mean that he is not serious in developing the relation, but he doesn’t want if this relation moves too fast till he has to involve his family.
2. You are not his parent’s type
It feels hurt, but he really knows what kind of woman that his parent wants, so when he thinks that you are not the ideal type of his parent’s, he will think twice to bring you meet his family. Than make you feel uncomfortable, better he postpones your meeting with his parent until he is sure that you can be received by his family.
3. He is not sure yet
To be a girlfriend is not always suitable to be his future wife, indeed he loves you, but the problem is he is not sure yet whether you are the right soul mate for him or not. He doesn’t want to be considered as a womanizer just because he often brings different woman to his family. If he has felt sure with his choice, without being asked, he definitely will bring you to meet his family.
4. Feels shame
Without being realized, possibly he hides his feeling to you. He is afraid if you will leave him after you know about his family’s condition. He feels that he is not good enough for you. For this case, you have to convince him that you will take his family just like the way they are.
5. He is not serious
Not all men make relation with good intention, possibly he just wants to spend his spare time or just wants to get status that ‘he is not desperate for woman’. If a man is not serious in maintaining a relationship, he won’t bring a girl to his family.
6. Too busy.
During this time he always busy with his job, even he only has little time to spend with you. This kind of man needs your understanding to give him time till he completes all of his job, then when he has spare time, he will bring you to meet his family. But in many cases, unfortunately this kind of man doesn’t even know when his job will completely finish.
7. Has problems with his parent
Unfortunately he has problem with his parent, so it’s hard to make him brings you to meet his family. He wants to live separates from his family, he feels that he can overcome all problems without involve his parent, including his relation with you.
8. Afraid if you will be interrogated
Based on his previous experiences, his parent will always interrogate every girls who came to his house. This time he doesn’t want to make his girlfriend feels uncomfortable and at the end will influence his relation with her. That’s why he tries to postpone your meeting with his parent until he’s sure that you are ready to meet his parent.
9. Afraid if his status will be revealed
He introduce himself as a single man, in fact he already has a wife and children, by keeping you away from his family, his secret will never been revealed.
10. He is not sure with your feeling
You never tell about your personal life with him, there are no serious discussions that refers to long-term relation, so he feels hesitant to ask you to meet his family.

Imagine That

May 23rd, 2009 by turisuna No comments »

Evan (Murphy) is a worker in a big finance company, his career is very promising. He is doing a lot of financial transactions that provide significant benefits for the company where he works. As a single parent who must work full time, Evan only has little time to be spent with his daughter, Olivia (Shahidi). Evan gives more attention to his job than his daughter’s activities.
Unfortunately one day Evan begins having trouble with his job, he experiences some failures that make his self confidence decreases. His worries and stressful are brought until his life at home with his daughter, even accidentally he buys stale milk for Olivia’s breakfast.
One day when he is preparing to see his boss, he’s surprised because his work sheets have been drawn by his daughter. When Evan asks an explanation from Olivia, this girl only says that she was playing with the princess, her imagination friend. Olivia drew what has been said by the princess.
Evan doesn’t have other choice, he must face his boss. When his boss sees the work sheets that have been drawn by Olivia, precisely he asks Evan how he knows what has happened with the company. Doesn’t believe what’s going on, Evan tries to test Olivia’s ‘friend’ again, and evidently what was said by the princess is really happened.
Is it true that Olivia’s imagination friend really can help to safe Evan’s job? Or it’s only a sign that Evan has to give more attention and get closer to his daughter?

See man's passion from his zodiac

May 22nd, 2009 by turisuna No comments »

1. Capricorn (22 December-19 January)
Capricorn man always wants to appear full of charisma. Indeed he has all the condition to make women crazy at him. In astrology, the goat is a symbol of sex, man under this star is a love worshiper and at the same time he’s really crazy about sex.
Capricorn man usually has high passion because his libido is also high. His capacity on bed might not be doubted anymore. He is the expert of this case, he is very creative in creates new styles that could surprise his couple. He is smart at exploiting each of sex position and could become a good teacher for his couple.
2. Aquarius (20 January – 17 February)
Man under this star usually acts cool when he is making love. However it doesn’t mean that he is stiff and not aggressive, if he likes one style of sex, then he will always do the same style with his couple. Indeed it’s little bit boring, even in several cases his couple can’t stand with his habit.
The sex passion of Aquarius man sometimes unstable, he really depends on his mood. When his mood is good, he will try to make his couple happy, even he doesn’t mind to try a new style to make his couple feels satisfy.
3. Pisces (19 February–19 March)
Pisces indeed is not a sex symbol and doesn’t have big interest towards sex. However Pisces man usually very romantic and has big sex appeal that could make his couple crazy at him. He is very expert in caresses his couple, he knows when and where his couple wants to be caressed without has to be asked.
When making love, Pisces man will full of attention and soft. He could make his couple willing to try a new style. Pisces man really adores his couple’s body, he will like if you flirt at him with using sexy underwear and dance in front of him. Pisces man likes to do foreplay for quite long time, he is good at controls his desire and stimulates his couple till she gets orgasm. So you should be patient to wait his action and when the time is coming, you will get amazing orgasm from him.
4. Aries (20 March-19 April)
Although he is good in stimulates his couple’s sexual desire, the Aries man is not an innovative man in having sex. He rarely reveals his sexual desire or his feeling toward his couple. His sex knowledge is received naturally without learn from various theories in books. He will happy if he can get a creative and aggressive woman for his couple, he will become ’sex slave’ who will give satisfaction for his couple. However the Aries man is a jealousy person, he likes to follow his conscience and little bit clumsy.
5. Taurus (20 April – 19 May)
The Taurus man is known as a romantic person. He likes to spoil his couple by watch concert or love drama movie, then it will be followed by romantic dinner and roses before finally making love. He is an open minded person and appreciates his couple. He likes to try some new styles during foreplay. Don’t be surprised if Taurus man often tries brave sex maneuver, usually it is the application of his sexual fantasy. Even he won’t hesitate to try radical technique, if he has a sexual fantasy, then he must implement that action. He doesn’t care whether his couple will like it or not, if you are kind of person who like to try new style and technique, you will definitely like to enjoy his action.
6. Gemini (20 Mei – 20 Jun)
Gemini man is a full understanding person. He always tries to understand his couple’s wish, he doesn’t act foolishly, if his couple doesn’t want to do sexual relation, then he wouldn’t force and wait for her for another time. He never forces someone to have intimate relation with him. He is wise and mature person. However Gemini man likes to say dirty words when he is making love with his couple while he’s gazing at her eyes.
7. Cancer (21 Jun-21 July)
Cancer man has big interest in sex, he also has big love for his couple, family, and career. He often acts shy, but actually he wants you, so you must be smart to read his behavior.
Cancer man knows when he must ask his couple for making love, he always wants to make his couple happy in bed. However because he really worships a woman, the cancer man has possibility to do affair.
Cancer man also likes to do sex activity in unusual way. For example he prefers to make love in sofa than in bed, or he prefers to have sex by standing than lay down. And he never explains to his couple why he likes to do that strange sexual activity. He believes that he must be different from what is done by other person.
8. Leo (22 July – 22 Augustus)
As in the case of tiger, Leo man likes to dominate when he is making love. He likes to hear his couple moaning when he is giving service to her. Leo man really likes woman’s breasts, in fact occasionally he prefers breasts than Miss V. The Leo man will use each opportunity to squeeze and bite his couple’s breasts, meanwhile at the other hand, Leo man will very happy if his breasts are squeezed and bitten by his couple.
9. Virgo (23 Augustus – 21 September)
The Virgo man has sweet smile that could make girls crazy about him. He also likes to control the games and has varieties sexual fantasies, it makes him always enthusiastic to carry out sexual relation with his couple. If you want to conquer the Virgo man, don’t forget to clean yourself and use soft perfume before you go to bed. Because Virgo man really pays attention to the health and cleanliness before he is making love. He will make sure that everything has perfect. Such as soft bed, cool room, soft drink and everything that could support the enjoyment of his sexual activity.
10. Libra (22 September – 22 October)
Libra man is easy to be cheated by woman’s appearance. But be careful he has sensual gesture. This is his weapon to conquer woman. The way to conquer the Libra man is by carrying out soft sexual relation, the Libra man really emphasizes the quality of his sexual activity. Libra man likes simple matters, easy and without too much thinking. According to him the knowledge about sex is really important, but it doesn’t mean that he has to apply all of them. Quickie sex is enough to make him feels satisfied, but it doesn’t mean that he is weak and has low libido.
11. Scorpio (23 October – 21 November)
For the Scorpio man, sex is a beauty that must be accompanying with emotional explosion. The Scorpio man really likes to do eroticism movement. He has great strength more than the other zodiac man in case of making love endurance. Any where and any time he is ready to do sex to full fill his satisfaction. The Scorpio man could make love for hours without supplement’s help. His sex style quite hard but not rough. That’s the reason why the Scorpio man wishes to get a woman who has equal capacity with him. When establishes a relation, the Scorpio man really trusts his couple, but when being disappointed, he will be difficult to compromise with that.
12. Sagittarius (22 November – 21 December)
Sagittarius man is a simple person and acts just the way he is. His capacity on bed depends on his couple’s capac
ity, he is not expert in finding G-Spot at his couple’s body, so he needs help from his couple to begin the game and do foreplay. The Sagittarius man is really easy to be stimulated and likes quickie sex. The Sagittarius man demands on loyalty and he is very careful in having sex. But the Sagittarius man only experts in one matter, for example he is good at kissing but he is not good at caressing his couple, or his mouth and tongue are smart to do oral but not good to do penetration. This is the surplus and the lack of Sagittarius man.

Love in man's eyes

May 21st, 2009 by turisuna No comments »

Woman often feels upset because the man who she loves has never revealed his feeling for her, does he really love me? That’s the question which often comes up to woman’s mind. Better you keep your anger, because man has different point of few about love. These following things are the way how man sees love:
1. Reluctant to say ‘I Love You’
Some men feel reluctant to say ‘I love you’ because they are afraid if you will ask them to undergo lifelong relationship. As you know some men are afraid to make commitment, because commitment has the same meaning as ending the opportunity to enjoy single period that’s very free and joyful for them.
2. They confuse with the reasons
Sometimes men can’t explain in details why they love someone, they only think that it has became their fate to live with a woman. But some men say that they fall in love with woman because of her personality, there are also those who fall in love because of the woman’s beauty, but unfortunately only few of them who say that they love woman because of her intelligence or some things like that.
3. Their way to say ‘love’
Most of men have difficulty to reveal their love feeling in words, therefore why they more often say it with using their body language. If a man has began to feel comfortable with a woman, he will try to get closer to her, for example, he will sit close to her when they are having dinner, or he will hold her hand when they are walking to the park. This gesture gives an impression to other men ‘don’t dare to approach this girl’, sometimes man will caress the back hand of the girl, this is the way to say that he feels comfortable being close with her. Of course there are many other gestures how man reveals his feeling, you just need to find out about it :)
4. Love or just lust
Sometimes man feels confuse or not sure if he is really falling in love with a woman, or it is only desire that mix with lust. Because man’s brain is dominated by testosterone, he rarely thinks ’straight’ :P . Strangely after establishes relation for quiet long time with a woman, then he has just realized if he is falling in love with his girlfriend.
5. The sign when he begins to be interested with you
Most of men prefer to hide his feeling about a problem. If he begins to reveal his personal problem, not only discusses about his job in office, this is the sign if he begins to trust you and has special feeling to you.
6. Being romantic and emotional is not woman’s domination
It’s not only woman who can change to be romantic and emotional when feels falling in love with a man, in fact man can be far more romantic and emotional when he is falling in love. He will look for the most romantic restaurant for having dinner with you, he will bring your favorite flowers, he will write love poems for you every day etc. But unfortunately this romantic manner often disappears along with the time after you finally become his couple :(
7. Gives special gift for you
When man takes initiative to give special gift (it can be expensive too) for you, especially when both of you have established relation for a long time. It is a sign that you has special place in his heart. He loves you just the way you are, both physically and your personality, he wishes that you want to continue this relation for long life time.
8. Some things that could make him lose his desire
According to survey, man will lose his desire if he faces a woman who doesn’t have character, has narrow perception, selfish and pretends to know everything.
9. The Hunter
Man indeed was born as a natural hunter, when he already chooses a target for his love interest, he will focus to get her. His natural aggressive manner and high determination make him becomes creative and never surrenders in pursuing his love interest, he will do anything to get that woman’s heart. So just let him to hunt you :)
10. Sex doesn’t mean love
Man could separate between sex and love. Because the series of his brain are classified, it makes man only can see one matter in one time. That is the reason why man can feel happy only by having good physical relation, for man sex is sex and love is love, although sometimes sex and love are happened at the same time.

extraordinary books

May 20th, 2009 by turisuna 1 comment »

As we know book is the center of information, through book we could travel around the world without going out from our home. Around millions of books in the world, there are several extraordinary books that we need to know, let find out what could make them special.

Size Does Matter
1. The Biography book about Franjo Tudjman, the president of Croatia that was written by Hrvoje Sosic consisted of 3604 pages and 2 kilogram heavy.
2. A book entitled Super book, was claimed as the biggest book in the world because it was 3 meter high and 2.7 meter width.
3. The smallest book record was held by Mark Palkovic’s book entitled Chekhov’s Chameleon, which consisted of 30 pages and measuring 0.9 x 0.9 millimeter. This measurement was not bigger than a salt, could you imagine how to read it?

Best Seller
1. R.L. Stine books (famous through Goosebumps) were held record as the best-seller book in the world, this horror specialist writer had sold more than 220 million copies of his books.
2. The best seller for adult fiction category was won by Agatha Christie, with her 78 criminal novels that were sold more than 2 billion copies.
3. The Children’s book entitled Charlotte’s web was the best seller for category children book in whole time.

Forbidden to be circulated
1. Salman Rushdie had been sentenced death because of his book entitled Satanic Verses. This book was considered leaded to astray. Many book shops refused to sell this book because frightened their shops will be damaged by community.
2. The Rabbit’s Wedding book that was written by Garth Williams had been protested in America at 1958, because it told about love story between white and black rabbit. They said that the book described the inter-racial love story, which was considered taboo at that time.
3. Winnie the Pooh was forbidden to be circulated in Turki, because the Piglet character was a pig that was regarded as forbidden animal in that country.
4. In 2001, in New Mexico and England, Harry Potter books were burnt because it was considered taught occultism for teenagers.