Maybe he is ‘the one’

August 11th, 2009 by turisuna 2 comments »

1. Have many similarities
Good relationship sometime is begun with having similarities between the couple. It doesn’t matter what kind of similarities between you and him, but if you want to make long-term relationship, it is important that both of you can enjoy together some aspects of your life, so both of you can comfort each other and no one who feels left behind.

2. He cares with your requirement
Love is begun when someone has realized that his couple’s requirement is the same important with his own requirement. If he cares with your requirement, and even sometimes he gives more attention to your requirement rather than his own, you need to give a chance for this man to approach you. Love needs to sacrifice, if he has dared to do that, so what are you waiting for?

3. He is your best friend
When you have a problem, someone who crosses in your mind at the first time is him, because inside of your heart you believe if he can make you feel better. And when you feel happy, he is the first person that you want to call to share your happiness. If he is someone who doesn’t afraid to experience rise and fall moments in your life, possibly he is the one who you are looking for.

4. He listens to you
He is someone who can listen to you without feeling bored; he gives attention to every word that you say so you don’t need to repeat that words over and over again. If he is a good listener and you feel comfortable to tell about everything to him, he deserves to get chance to be your couple.

5. Unconditional
Is he angry when you tell him about your opinion that opposite with his opinion? Is he angry if you cut your hair without telling him first? Is he angry if you tease him? Is he angry when you look plain because you don’t use your make-up? If the answer is NO, just go get him, a man who can accept you the way you are is a priceless couple.

6. He always on time
He tries hard to come on time in every date with you. He comes half hour earlier to wait for you. He prefers to wait for you rather than to make you wait for him. A man who appreciates time has big possibility to appreciate you too.

7. Heart contact
Without saying anything, both of you can feel each other. Sometime you feel that you can read his mind and at the other hand he can read your mind. You also feel that you can send telepathy to him, for example, when you miss him, suddenly he calls you. When you want to meet him, suddenly he is on the way to your house. It happens unintentionally and without saying anything, well … congratulation, maybe you have found your soulmate.

Signs that he is possibly cheating

August 10th, 2009 by turisuna 6 comments »

1. Understands if other man is having affair
One day you tell him about your friend who feels sad because of her boyfriend cheats on her. Usually he will give his empathy to someone who becomes a victim of disloyalty, however this time he gives different opinion, he doesn’t blame that man, and precisely he says that he can understand about the deception that was done by that man. He starts to give some logical reasons that give a sign if having affair is not a big problem.

2. Hiding a name
Usually you recognize all names in your man’s phone. One day you find a new name of girl inside his phone book, or without deliberate you find a woman’s name and her number in his wallet or agenda. Of course you will suspicious about this name, because if she is only an ordinary friend, he won’t hide her name and he won’t mind if you know about it. If you are not sure about this, you can ask about this name to his friends, if they also don’t know, then you should ask this name to your man. You better find the right place and time to ask about it, don’t ask emotionally, because man will not like if he is urged by someone else.

3. Hiding your existence
When he is not around you, he often denies about your existence as his couple. For example when he is gathering with his friends, he never admits that he already has a girlfriend. He always says to his friends that he is not belonging to anyone. He acts like this to attract attention from other women that he meets. Of course if he admits that he has a girlfriend, he won’t be able to get some pretty girls to make date behind you. In this case, friendship role is very important, ask them to be honest with you, if they are good friends, of course they won’t let you will be hurt by disloyal man.

4. Investing a goodness
He says that he doesn’t mind if you go with other man, “I want our relation can be win-win solution, I don’t want to curb your freedom, if you want to make date with other man, I won’t mind”. Actually this statement has a hidden intention, he doesn’t want to feel guilty if one day you see him make date with other woman. However, you are his girlfriend, not only his sex partner, so he should treat you better.

5. Mr. Details
Usually man doesn’t talk too much just like a woman, although you ask his opinion, he only gives short words and straight to the problem. However this time is different, suddenly he likes to give long answer for your simple question. This behavior can be his effort to prepare a perfect scenario to cover his action in the future. When someone wants to tell a lie, the trick that often been used is gives too much details.

Some facts about intimate thing, part 3

August 10th, 2009 by turisuna 2 comments »

51. About 40% of men say that they know if their couple pretends to get orgasm, while the other 40% of them are not sure about that.
52. About 92% of women admit that at least one time in their life, they have ever pretended to get orgasm when they are making love with their couple.
53. The 3:2:1 pattern is the most often pattern that’s done by the couples when they are making love. This pattern consists of 3 minutes for foreplay: 2 minutes for making love: 1 minute for orgasm, but unfortunately the orgasm is more often experienced by men rather than women.
54. About 75% of women consider that foreplay is more important rather than the sex itself.
55. Sex fantasy is a normal thing, and doesn’t show sexual deviation.
56. Usually fantasy is caused by your curiosity, but in most cases fantasy is only fantasy, you won’t enjoy it if you apply the fantasy in the real life.
57. Most of men think that women enjoy to do fellatio (kiss and suck Mr. P).
58. Woman can get orgasm by giving stimulus to her clitoris; usually it is done by using finger.
59. Man often keeps his condom in wallet (it causes the condom pressed) or in car drawer (it causes the condom hot), this habit makes the condom broken and the function becomes ineffective.
60. Oxytocin is a substance that can increase your sexual desire.
61. The orderly Oxytocin release can help to add the frequency of sexual activity.
62. When woman gets climax, the muscles around Miss V including muscles around anus will experience contraction.
63. When the contraction happen, it can cause the disposal of gas through anus, usually it happens unintentionally.
64. Farting through Miss V often happen when the couple is doing sex with doggy style position and its variation.
65. Farting can happen because the muscles around Miss V have been weak.
66. Woman’s sex fantasy has different characteristic from man’s fantasy.
67. Usually woman’s fantasy is focused on one person and passive, while man’s fantasy is an active action and sometimes not focused only for one person.
68. Woman also has exotic and romantic sex fantasy.
69. Some women say that they will be passionate when their partner stimulates their breasts, moreover if this is done at the beginning of sex activity.
70. The reason why woman needs long time to achieve orgasm is because she feels worried and afraid of certain things. It makes woman doesn’t give fully surrender.
71. Learning sex technique and style is important for a relationship.
72. Some men really like to see their action when they are making love. That’s the reason why they like to act in front of a mirror or even tape their action in video.
73. Man’s perineum area is an erotic area and very sensitive.
74. After achieving climax, usually man needs 20 minutes to relax before rises again.
75. Doing sex when you are menstruation can cause the blood that leaves Miss V will be hampered. If blood flows through abdomen and settle there, it will cause endometriosis, so better you don’t do it.

Some signs that he only wants to be a friend

August 8th, 2009 by turisuna 4 comments »

1. Talks about other woman
When he meets you, he always talks about other woman; he doesn’t discuss about the relation between you and him. The other woman that he tells to you can be his colleague, his former girlfriend, or even your best friend. If you already see this sign, it means that he only wants to be your friend, because if he wants to be a special person for you, he will not talk about another woman that clearly will hurt your feelings and make you walk away from him. Sometimes man uses this way to make his girl feels jealous, but if he really loves you, this trick won’t last too long.

2. Takes friends when he should meet you
Usually man uses this trick if he doesn’t want too close to a woman. For example, you ask him to watch newest movie at cinema, but when you meet him in cinema, surprisingly he also takes another person. This is a signal that he wants to say if you are the outsider of his life.

3. Doesn’t make any physical contact
Usually if a man is interested to a woman, he will start to make small touch that can give a sign that he is interested to her, such as caresses her hair, holds her hand, embraces her hip, or caresses her back. You can test his reaction by giving small touch to him. For example touch his shoulder or hand, if he responds your touch by holding your hand, it means that he also wants to give special attention to you, however if he doesn’t give any respond to you, it means that you are regarded only as a friend for him.

4. Doesn’t want to go out with you
If a man is not interested to a woman, he will try to make his environment (his friends) won’t think that he is having a date with her. So if he refuses your invitation to have dinner or hang out in a coffee shop, possibly it is his soft way to tell you that he doesn’t want to be your boyfriend.

5. Always says ‘friend’
He always says to you, ‘you are a good friend’, ‘you are a friend who could be relied on’, ‘you are a true friend’, or every times he meets with his friends, he will introduce you to them only as a friend, not his girlfriend. That’s a clear sign that you are only an ordinary friend for him.

6. Refuses to enter your world
Has he ever accompanied you to go for shopping? Does he ask about your personal things such as your favorite movie, favorite food, and favorite place to hang out? Does he want to know more about your family and friends? If the answer is ‘NO’, it means that he is reluctant to enter your world. If he loves you, he will try to know more about you and doesn’t afraid to involve himself into your life.

7. Always asks for help
Does he always ask for help from you? Starting from borrowing your books, borrowing your DVD, even asking your help to solve his personal problems. Don’t feel flattered with this behavior. Woman often feels that she is an important part of man’s life just because he often asks for help from her. There’s possibility that he only considers you as a friend who could be relied on every time he needs a help. If he loves you, he will try to give the best for you, not only bothering you.

8. He tries to match you with another man
When he talks about another man who apparently matches with you, he will try to shift your attention that previously for him to another man, it’s a sign that he is not interested to develop a serious relation with you, he only wants to be a friend for you.

9. No Chemistry
If a man falls in love to a woman, he will feel interested towards everything that has connection with her, even a trivial thing. He will continue to ask himself about many questions, such as “Does she love me?”, “What should I do to approach her?” or “Is she thinking about me?”. This feeling creates wave of electricity toward her, that’s what we call with chemistry. If you don’t feel any chemistry between you and him, you better only become his friend.

Some facts about intimate thing, part 2

August 8th, 2009 by turisuna No comments »

26. When Mr. P leaves Miss V after making love, the air will be released, you will experience vaginal wind and sometimes causes a voice, don’t worry, this voice is normal.
27. Woman can also experience ‘wet dream’, usually this is known as nocturnal orgasm.
28. When making love, your body releases endorphin in blood circulation. Endorphin makes you feel happy and comfortable. That’s the reason why sex is an effective way to heal minor depression.
29. Sex is the safest sedative in the world. The effect is more effective 10 times than using Valium.
30. Sex is a natural antihistamine that can alleviate asthma and loosen the clog nose because of flu.
31. Sexual activity under 17 years old can stimulate the growth of cancer cell at female’s reproduction organ.
32. In the age of 12 – 17 years old, the change of cell in uterus mouth is very active; the entry of alien object (including Mr. P and sperm) can cause abnormal cell development.
33. When your body sexually active, it will produce pheromones, this is soft natural perfume that can trigger passion of your partner.
34. Sperm contains hormone that can change woman’s mood becomes better.
35. Around 50-79% women have ever experienced pseudo frigidity because of the lack of stimulus from the partner during sex activity.
36. When having sex, woman’s body produces Oestrogen hormone that can make her hair shining and her skin softer.
37. The sweat that’s produced by body when having sex, can clean pores and make skin sparkling.
38. When you are in passionate, the clitoris that originally only as big as a peanut, will expand.
39. The main organ that controls the rhythm of sex game till achieve orgasm is your brain.
40. A woman who routinely having sex at least one time in a week, will have orderly menstruation period.
41. The hormone that controls menstruation cycle is pheromone. Pheromone is also found in man’s sweat.
42. Don’t insult your couple when he says his sexual fantasy, because it can make him lose his passion.
43. When reaching orgasm, man will push his Mr. P as quick as possible.
44. Man likes if his partner squeezes or slaps softly his bottom when they are making love.
45. In many cases man can’t feel when his partner achieves orgasm. However if he gives full attention, he can feel contraction rhythm when she shouts “Oooo”.
46. Masturbation will not cause any illness if the finger or tool that’s used is clean.
47. The only illness that you can get because of masturbation is the guilty feeling, and it is not a trivial matter, so be careful.
48. Time for woman to achieve orgasm is around 15 minutes, whereas man only needs 4-7 minutes.
49. Woman’s heartbeat during orgasm is about 180 beats/minute, whereas man only 175 beats/minute.
50. Time to enjoy orgasm for woman and man is same, approximately around 8-19 seconds.