2. He cares with your requirement
Love is begun when someone has realized that his couple’s requirement is the same important with his own requirement. If he cares with your requirement, and even sometimes he gives more attention to your requirement rather than his own, you need to give a chance for this man to approach you. Love needs to sacrifice, if he has dared to do that, so what are you waiting for?

3. He is your best friend
When you have a problem, someone who crosses in your mind at the first time is him, because inside of your heart you believe if he can make you feel better. And when you feel happy, he is the first person that you want to call to share your happiness. If he is someone who doesn’t afraid to experience rise and fall moments in your life, possibly he is the one who you are looking for.

4. He listens to you
He is someone who can listen to you without feeling bored; he gives attention to every word that you say so you don’t need to repeat that words over and over again. If he is a good listener and you feel comfortable to tell about everything to him, he deserves to get chance to be your couple.

5. Unconditional
Is he angry when you tell him about your opinion that opposite with his opinion? Is he angry if you cut your hair without telling him first? Is he angry if you tease him? Is he angry when you look plain because you don’t use your make-up? If the answer is NO, just go get him, a man who can accept you the way you are is a priceless couple.

6. He always on time
He tries hard to come on time in every date with you. He comes half hour earlier to wait for you. He prefers to wait for you rather than to make you wait for him. A man who appreciates time has big possibility to appreciate you too.

7. Heart contact
Without saying anything, both of you can feel each other. Sometime you feel that you can read his mind and at the other hand he can read your mind. You also feel that you can send telepathy to him, for example, when you miss him, suddenly he calls you. When you want to meet him, suddenly he is on the way to your house. It happens unintentionally and without saying anything, well … congratulation, maybe you have found your soulmate.

2. Hiding a name
Usually you recognize all names in your man’s phone. One day you find a new name of girl inside his phone book, or without deliberate you find a woman’s name and her number in his wallet or agenda. Of course you will suspicious about this name, because if she is only an ordinary friend, he won’t hide her name and he won’t mind if you know about it. If you are not sure about this, you can ask about this name to his friends, if they also don’t know, then you should ask this name to your man. You better find the right place and time to ask about it, don’t ask emotionally, because man will not like if he is urged by someone else.

3. Hiding your existence
When he is not around you, he often denies about your existence as his couple. For example when he is gathering with his friends, he never admits that he already has a girlfriend. He always says to his friends that he is not belonging to anyone. He acts like this to attract attention from other women that he meets. Of course if he admits that he has a girlfriend, he won’t be able to get some pretty girls to make date behind you. In this case, friendship role is very important, ask them to be honest with you, if they are good friends, of course they won’t let you will be hurt by disloyal man.

4. Investing a goodness
He says that he doesn’t mind if you go with other man, “I want our relation can be win-win solution, I don’t want to curb your freedom, if you want to make date with other man, I won’t mind”. Actually this statement has a hidden intention, he doesn’t want to feel guilty if one day you see him make date with other woman. However, you are his girlfriend, not only his sex partner, so he should treat you better.

5. Mr. Details
Usually man doesn’t talk too much just like a woman, although you ask his opinion, he only gives short words and straight to the problem. However this time is different, suddenly he likes to give long answer for your simple question. This behavior can be his effort to prepare a perfect scenario to cover his action in the future. When someone wants to tell a lie, the trick that often been used is gives too much details.

2. Takes friends when he should meet you
Usually man uses this trick if he doesn’t want too close to a woman. For example, you ask him to watch newest movie at cinema, but when you meet him in cinema, surprisingly he also takes another person. This is a signal that he wants to say if you are the outsider of his life.

3. Doesn’t make any physical contact
Usually if a man is interested to a woman, he will start to make small touch that can give a sign that he is interested to her, such as caresses her hair, holds her hand, embraces her hip, or caresses her back. You can test his reaction by giving small touch to him. For example touch his shoulder or hand, if he responds your touch by holding your hand, it means that he also wants to give special attention to you, however if he doesn’t give any respond to you, it means that you are regarded only as a friend for him.

4. Doesn’t want to go out with you
If a man is not interested to a woman, he will try to make his environment (his friends) won’t think that he is having a date with her. So if he refuses your invitation to have dinner or hang out in a coffee shop, possibly it is his soft way to tell you that he doesn’t want to be your boyfriend.

5. Always says ‘friend’
He always says to you, ‘you are a good friend’, ‘you are a friend who could be relied on’, ‘you are a true friend’, or every times he meets with his friends, he will introduce you to them only as a friend, not his girlfriend. That’s a clear sign that you are only an ordinary friend for him.

6. Refuses to enter your world
Has he ever accompanied you to go for shopping? Does he ask about your personal things such as your favorite movie, favorite food, and favorite place to hang out? Does he want to know more about your family and friends? If the answer is ‘NO’, it means that he is reluctant to enter your world. If he loves you, he will try to know more about you and doesn’t afraid to involve himself into your life.

7. Always asks for help
Does he always ask for help from you? Starting from borrowing your books, borrowing your DVD, even asking your help to solve his personal problems. Don’t feel flattered with this behavior. Woman often feels that she is an important part of man’s life just because he often asks for help from her. There’s possibility that he only considers you as a friend who could be relied on every time he needs a help. If he loves you, he will try to give the best for you, not only bothering you.

8. He tries to match you with another man
When he talks about another man who apparently matches with you, he will try to shift your attention that previously for him to another man, it’s a sign that he is not interested to develop a serious relation with you, he only wants to be a friend for you.

9. No Chemistry
If a man falls in love to a woman, he will feel interested towards everything that has connection with her, even a trivial thing. He will continue to ask himself about many questions, such as “Does she love me?”, “What should I do to approach her?” or “Is she thinking about me?”. This feeling creates wave of electricity toward her, that’s what we call with chemistry. If you don’t feel any chemistry between you and him, you better only become his friend.