Maybe you know that man is a visual creature, but actually you can also stimulate a man through his five senses. You don’t have to use complicated way, using a simple way can also make him passionate.

1. Sight
Some researchers from the Rochester University, New York, studied 149 men to measure the level of man’s interest toward woman. They used a photograph with different colors of frames. The frames’ colors were white, gray, blue, green and red. The result showed that most of men are more interested to the photograph with red frame. Usually red is related with heart, love, valentine, and lingerie. Red means sexy. So if you want to seduce him trough his sight, you can choose red for your lingerie, dress, or shoes. You will catch his attention with that color

2. Smell
You don’t need to spray lot of perfumes to your body, because your body’s natural scent has a role to enhance the passion. According to Sharon Moalem, PhD, the author of book entitled ‘How Sex Works’, ‘All of us have different kind of scent and unique’. The body’s scent has important role to trigger the passion. So you don’t have to confuse to choose different kind of perfumes or smear lot of lotion to all parts of your body before you are making love with him, as long as your body is clean and you don’t have problem with body odor, your body’s natural scent could become an aphrodisiac for him.

3. Taste
Open a box of chocolate, putting a chocolate to his mouth will become a sensual thing for him. Chocolate can release serotonin hormone in his brain that can make him stimulated. Serotonin is a hormone that induces the sense of calm, pleasure, and satisfaction; it is the same with the feeling when you are falling in love.

4. Hearing
One of man’s complains toward woman is because woman doesn’t make any voice when she reaches satisfaction. You don’t need to scream loudly, but soft sigh like ‘mmmmh’ or ‘yes honey’ will be able to make him more confident and excited.

5. Touch
It’s not only woman who likes to be hugged, actually man also likes if someone hug him. When man gets a warm hug or touch from his couple, his brain will release oxytocin hormone (Some people call it as love hormone ). The feeling that occurs because of the oxytocin hormone can strengthen the bond between you and him, it can also help to make a better sexual activity between couple.

People know that Long Distance Relationship (LDR) is not easy to do; many challenges must be faced by couples who undergo this kind of relationship. However, although it is a difficult thing, but it does not mean that LDR is impossible to do, there are some couples who can face all the obstacles and finally go to altar for married.
But does LDR fit for you? If you have these following characteristics, it means that LDR is not for you:

1. You love the intimacy
Holding hands, hugging each other, and smelling his perfume are some interesting things that you like to do when you are with him. You will miss him so much if you can’t do that. Although you can see his face from the webcam and say how much you love him, still it feels something is missing and incomplete. You will feel envious every time you see other couples hugging, kissing, and making a romantic date.

2. You don’t know what you want to achieve from the relationship.
In order to succeed with long distance relationship, both of you should realize if this long distance relationship wouldn’t last forever. If you don’t have a plan to meet and stay with him in the same place one day, you don’t need to bother spending a lot of money to meet with him who stays in the other part of world.

3. You are not good in building communication.
His physical absence in your life makes you miss him so much. Unfortunately you are not good in expressing your emotion and thought through words. If you meet him directly, you can hold him without saying any words. This can not be done if you should face him from the phone. It is impossible to pick up the phone without saying anything. If you want to get serious with him, you have to learn how to build better communication, if you don’t; your long distance relationship will be boring.

4. The trust is still an issue.
It can not be denied if the trust on loyalty is the most difficult matter to be dealt in long distance relationship. Can you guarantee that you will still faithful to him when there is another man tries to approach you? Or can you believe that he won’t approach another woman when you are not with him? If both of you can’t trust and loyal on each other, it’s better if you stop this long distance relationship.

5. You are not willing to sacrifice.
If you are undergoing a long-distance relationship, you will have a different life with other couples. To talk with him on phone or chat with him through internet, you have to adjust your schedule with him, and this is not an easy thing to do. Maybe you should sacrifice your sleeping time to be able to talk with him, or even you should keep your YM opens when you are working. Whatever it is, long-distance relationship requires more sacrifice from both of you.

6. You are a spoiled woman
You like if he is spoiling you and treating you like a princess. He’ll do whatever you want and full fill whatever you need. When he’s away from you, you will feel lost, you don’t know to whom you can be spoiled. It’s impossible if you spoil with another man, because it absolutely will break the relationship between you and your boyfriend.