Having relationship or not is a choice

[ 0 ] February 24, 2010 | turisuna

Every woman wants to love and to be loved, but unfortunately in this real live, not every woman is lucky enough to get a right man for her life and finally getting married. There are many women who have had bad experiences in relationships; even sometimes the bad experiences make woman closes her heart to accept a new love from other man.

Having long term relationship with a man can’t guarantee that he will propose you and finally ask you to get married. Bad experience in relationship can give two possibilities; someone will become a mature and wiser person, or she’ll fall into an endless grief.

There are some people who say that dating will only waste time, money, and energy. It takes quite lot of budget if you want to make a date with someone. You need money to meet or call him, you need time to write email or chat with him, and maybe you need some energy to visit him if he stays in different city or even different country.

Many people don’t believe if there is a soulmate for everyone. The biggest mistake of dating is the idea that a relationship will bring you to meet your soulmate, they say that a soulmate is only a myth.

For me, having a relationship or remain as a single woman is a choice. Indeed, many couples who fail in relationships, but on the other hand there are many couples who succeed in maintain a relationship and get married till they are old. Whatever your choice is, make sure that you are happy and you won’t regret with what you’ve chosen.

If you’re waiting for the right man but unfortunately you haven’t found him yet, don’t be sad, there are many ways to make you happy and make your life more meaningful, such as:
1. Busied yourself with job and business.
2. Use your spare time by doing some favorite things, such as: reading books, listening music, watching movie with your friends, or going vacation with your family.
3. Being a volunteer, besides helping others, it makes your life more meaningful.
4. Sign up for some courses such as cooking class, make-up class, language class, dancing class, etc., it can expand your network, and who knows you can find a right man in the courses that you follow.
5. Don’t be afraid to dream and wish that someday you will find a right man for your life; something will be beautiful in time